Originally Posted by ellie
Rockchick have you read Barbra Shers - refuse to choose?
I think you should get it. It's about embracing, having lots of different ideas, and passions.
It's helped me heaps. I implemented doing everything on mind, no matter if the outcome is successful. This has helped me tremendously in getting closer to what I really want to do.
You obviously have time to experiment, so don't waste this time...start experimenting.
Yes, I bought that book. Like everything else, I got so excited and thought finally this was the answer. I read that book in about a day and a half, (usually it takes me months to get through a book), but I was so excited and into this. I even joined her group on Facebook and I joined her forum and posted on there and Barbara herself even replied to me! And then, nothing. I could go into detail about how it didn't work but I'm sure it doesn't matter, I think what it boils down to is there is just too much stopping me from achieving what I want and now i'm starting to think even if there was a magic pill, it wouldn't work anyway. I think I need to see a hypnotist or get some therapy or something, to find out why I keep blocking myself.
The excuses seem genuine to me (lack of money, lack of self discipline/willpower, the inability to leave my family and friends, having too many choices (4 or 5 is ok but now I'm up to literally at least 20). but to other people they are just excuses and I need to find out why I keep making them.