Originally Posted by themaster
Or say bashar's favorite phrase.. "circumstances don't matter, only my state of being matters"
That is what everyone wants deep down - to not have to need circumstances to be different than it is and to have peace of mind and joy and love within without depending on any circumstance at all.
I think once one gets into their better states of being, which can continually grow, the circumstances change automatically for the better too.
It may be easier to find better states of being and not be trying to manipulate the world with needing circumstances to serve you.