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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  I did "say" something to my ego last night laying in bed, I told it something like 'get out of the way'...but is it really that easy? I obviously don't notice a difference today. |
Sounds a bit mean.. be
respectful if you can.. try "shut down" "turn off, please" "thanks for your input but I don't desire it right now"
Yes, it's that
easy..
validate yourself when you do it.. (that you have the power to command/control your body) don't make it into a big thing.. note I've done it tons of times.. doesn't mean it's always off/listens
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 Well I do remember saying it happened because of me, so that is validating it (right?) but I just saw no point in it if it didn't bring me the actual thing (in that case, the guy I wanted). |
That is your ego making a "judgment" about it not working/being bad.. (yes, you validated it.. and then you shoot it down with a loaded machine gun with the statement "there was no point"
)
Validate it as showing you that you have
power.. see there's no loaded machine gun here? Just cause you didn't get what you want..
validate that you got
something!
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 The reason why I don't come in here right away at the beginning of my day is because I do the important stuff first (check emails, job hunt) and if I have somewhere to go, I sometimes don't get back online until right before bed. Most days I am gone for a few hours at least, at some point, which pushes my recreational/fun activities back to later, if I get to them at all. |
How many consecutive days of job hunting have you had where the emails/whatever has panned out..?? I'm going to make a guess and I'm not trying to be
mean.. but I'm guessing
very little.. I'm sure you've made some
progress..
But I tell you that this work can make your job hunt
easier?
Make your life more
fullfilled and
happier?
And then you tell me..
this is not that important.. it's leasure.. oh.. alright whatever you say..
(your story/excuse reminds me a lot of what my sister jessie said to me about yellowstone.. it's the exact same subject/idea to me)
Rockchick, we can't do much if you don't have the time to practice the tools.. because you and I both know the
information isn't working.. (it is and it isn't
) we need the
tools and that
practice to get you there.. so let's start seeing you post at least once a day in the workout thread.. not where you wrote something to me (which by the WAY this is spiritual work.. don't get me wrong..
this helps you.. but that you spent 20 minutes trying this method.. or 30 minutes trying this method)
This is no joke.. I will call you (assuming you have a #) and go through a guided meditaton with you on the phone.. if I know you'd listen and try with me.. maybe you need a
workout buddy who's a bit like a paid gym instructor.. luckily you don't have to pay me.. I accept "thanks you's"
Go ahead and reply if you want too.. but remember no reply from me without a “workout” statement in the workout thread.. (you can always lie if you want too
)