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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 Apparently everything I say is my ego! I don't know how to tell the difference and I don't know how to fix it. |
I've told you about some of the tools to change the ego.. just haven't heard you practice any of them..
Also there's
nothing to fix.. love yourself, love your ego and say please change with me..

pretty, please with flowers and chocolate gew and hershey's kiss's on top..

please, change with me? <bat some eye lashes>
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 I honestly have all those thoughts, both good and bad. I was having a great day earlier because I was out and about, doing stuff, but then the argument with my dad happened and I'm just thinking too much about all this and I'm starting to feel like it's hopeless again. I wish I could turn my brain off. All of a sudden I feel like it's all crashing down on me again (probably because of my dad), I just want to get away from this and I can't! |
Put up the rose.. (hell, put up the rose every time your with your family) it makes a seperation of your energy and there's..
Or say bashar's favorite phrase.. "circumstances don't matter, only my state of being matters"
Wouldn't it be great rockchick.. if you could be walking around and or just be hanging out with family and they come to you.. (like they did today) and they said.. "I have this problem with myself" and you could say to them.. I understand and that sucks for you "but I'm not taking on your problem" in other words..
Wouldn't it be great if you could have been with your dad today and he could have said his spiel.. and you wouldn't have gotten down because of it?
Because that's what were trying to do for you.. if we could ever get you to practice those tools!
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 I don't have a problem admitting i'm scared, I've done that many times. So where is my power then? |
The thing is if you know what I know
Then you know.. that were all the same being.. yes.. "the one is all and the all are one" that is a phrase from my teacher... so that means no matter who is scaring you.. doesn't matter what it is..
Hitler, freddy krueger, under the bed

doesn't matter.. it's all you.. under that premise.. what's there to be afraid off??
The worst thing you can think of RIGHT now.. is you.. doesn't matter what it is.. I'm you.. the computer is you.. the internet is you.. a pixel is you

everything is you..
So if you can elleviate that fear with ideas like..
- Death isn't such a bad things
- Everything is me..?? what's to be scarred of??
Then under this idea/philosophy or truth

you can begin to lessen that fear.. all of the fear you have comes from the EGO.. tell your ego there's nothing under the bed but you.. cause it's true!
Tell your ego you are capable of being without your family.. doesn't mean you choose that.. but you could do it.. cause you
know you could!
Tell your ego since everythig is you

that everyone is family! Cause they are.. not a random person you meet on the street is not part of our family.. for everyone is you.. and you are they