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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  Well I have to disagree If somebody is running around here, running there, is late for this, is late for that, how can they relax long enough to clear their mind? I can hardly clear my mind when I'm not busy! When I have 10 things to get done in a day, and I stop moving for a second, I get antsy and frustrated, I can't relax because I'm already behind schedule. My body physically can't switch gears that quickly. I wouldn't make a stupid excuse like "I ended up watching tv for a few hours", that particular day I honestly didn't have a minute to relax. |
The only reason you
can't.. is cause you say
you can't..
But I think you
could.. so try and keep a open mind about anything.. and remember why your day is buzzing with things going on (even when you have no job
) you can make time.. we all can!
The idea behind "segment intending" or "grounding cord" is these can be activated in less then a minute if your in a hurry or up to 5 if you want to take time.. don't define these ideas as "taking a LONG time" "requiring dedicated thought" etc.
If your going to make a change.. you need to change your daily experience..
Look at this like you’re on the playground all right.. and your life is going from the swing set to the jungle gym and then the "monkey bars"
But take a minute before doing each to "declare what you want" aka "segment intending" and or "grounding cord" because the PRACTICE when these tools don't count.. will make it all the easier when it
does..
As your coach I'm telling you straight up.. your still bench warming.. get out there and make a play
(and no.. there's nothing wrong with
bench warming )
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 Oh of course I could have done that, I thought you specifically wanted me to go for a walk. I have experienced the syncronicity thing many times, and they are unexpected and come out of nowhere but the thing is they're always stupid little things that don't matter. Like 2 years ago I was so obsessed with this guy I wanted to date, and I would see his name everywhere, and one time I was watching a movie and I told myself, "Someone in the credits will have his exact name", and about 5 seconds later, someone did! (He doesn't have a very common name, so it tripped me out!) And I thought for sure that was a sign that I would be with him. But, it never happened. Then it made me think, ok, so this is how the law of attraction works...you don't get your wish, you just get these silly little syncronicities that don't mean anything. Why are those a big deal when you don't get what you wanted? So I just never get too excited about those when they happen. |
Okay, it's good to know you have manifestation experience.. what we want to
focus on is things that are NOT important to you right now.. I'm sure you'd rather go for
important.. (ask away if you want) but I think focus on things you believe you could have or not have and it "doesn't matter" would be fine for now..
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 What is a holodeck, anyway? Oh and if manifesting money seems easy to you, maybe you could try manifesting some for ME? (Only half kidding!) |
This is the holodeck
Holodeck
Ohh, indeed we should create you a
co-creation thread.. I would like to know that you’re taking time out for spiritual "workouts" study first
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 I've been reading these threads in here for 2 years! I always am filled with awe and happiness every time I read a post about someone having good luck with LOA. And then my faith meter goes up a little. But then it goes back down after it fails to work for me. |
Well, let's change the dialog on this.. just like "Unique Challenges
"
Let's
pretend that it always works for you.. even if that isn't true.. adopting the mindset of a positive person.. may mean some people will call you "crazy"
Let e'm call you crazy.. after all who cares what they think!
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 Well if there is more than one option for something, and they all have varying degrees of pros and cons, and I choose one that has way more cons than pros, to me that is a wrong choice. I know the whole thing Christine Kane said about "There is no wrong wall" (with the ladders analogy), but I already feel like I'm behind on life, and if I make a choice that is wrong (for me) then I need more time to fix that "mistake" and get to the point where I can make a better choice. Not to mention, certain choices might be costly financially. If I was 18 years old and just graduating high school I would just do whatever I wanted without thinking because I would know I had enough time to do everything. But when you don't even think about those things til you're almost 40, well, you just simply don't have as much time so you have to make better decisions. |
You can't
get to the place you want to be in life.. if your "beating" yourself up all the time..
Here's another exercise try to read and try to do.. go to the mirror.. and say I like me.. "say it 50 times" do your best to mean it.. because I know
deep down.. you do like you! (and I'm not trying to say otherwise
)
Stop
rationalizing (hint here.. this is EGO) your behavior.. start becoming "spiritual" just say to yourself.. that everything you said above is the
old you.. and like a caterpillar your changing into a butterfly..
I mean read the above statements back to yourself.. do you like what your hearing about yourself?
Change is about enacting in the NOW the change.. you can't get to..
I like myself from statements every day of "i don't like me" and that's what your statements above
reads like.. change your mind right here in the now and say
"I like me"
"There's nothing wrong with me"
"I'm going to make a
change to be a stronger, more capable, more loving me"