[themaster]

Originally Posted by Rockchick26

So you're saying I can just "forget" that I'm about to lose my unemployment money and "forget" that I have to find a new place to live? Those are the kind of things that if you ignore, you will find yourself evicted and homeless before you know what hit you. If you "forget" about persuing your dreams, you will never persue them.

One of the things you got to remember.. is I say something positive/helpful.. you put your EGO into it.. and then say..

What about this limitation?

What about this?

Ohh, absolutely I'm telling you to forget about your unemployment and a "new place to live"

I think you did forget about pursuing your dreams.. too focused on "unemployment" and a "new place to live"

Didn't you right out dreams to me.. and about 0 of them accomplished..

Put your EGO aside workout buddy..

That's 1 hail mary! I mean that 1 time you should "spend working on getting into the center of your head"

Originally Posted by Rockchick26

Wow! Your goals page looks so different from mine. I have written goals down before, when I was actively using the Tony Robbins program. Here I'll show you what my list was:

-Live where it's warm at least during winter time
-Have a job I love that pays enough
-Become part of a community of friends
-Become perfectly healthy
-Explore all of my interests (photography, music, video/film, stormchasing, cooking, natural health, writing)
-Become more active in Wicca
-See all of the United States
-Take classes for my interests
-Be able to travel wherever I want, whenever I want
-Own a beach house (or at least have anytime access to one)
-Make documentaries/movies
-Publish at least one book
-Get rid of my nervousness & insecurity
-Be respected & admired
-Not make excuses anymore
-Attract & impress others
-Have a romantic relationship
-Change/help the world
-Stop procrastinating
-Be able to talk better (on the phone especially but also in person)
-Go on a nature retreat
-Buy an RV/motor home

It makes me sad that I haven't accomplished any of these! :-( And I made this list like 6 or 7 months ago!

Yep, I wouldn't say you haven't accomplished anything but I would say.. your probably about 3-5% along.. after all these goals are mostly action based (not all) but I think you need to find away to remove that which is disabling you..

Have you practiced grounding today.. workout buddy?

Originally Posted by Rockchick26

lol.. funny question.. everyone's EGO is making them miserable.. that's just the truth! It's true design was to be a FOCUS.. but hardly any of us use it as a FOCUS.. it ends up thinking it has to "do everything" "think of everything"

I'm a bit confused. I always thought the ego was the part of you that liked attention and compliments and basically anything that made it feel good? I don't see what that has to do with focusing, or doing or thinking.
[/QUOTE]The EGO is every part of you that thinks (this is my definition) so yes in these statements your using it now.. (were not designed to be thinkers much.. so you can see how thinking a lot is the EGO or also called "mental self")

Is detrimental.. I told you before the EGO is a limitation.. it can't figure out when you ask for a "banana" how it will come.. it just can't figure out the HOW..

And so the EGO not knowing how it will come.. means that in a way your BLOCKING your own manifestation powers.. so in that way.. that's what I'm talking about when I ask you to say to your EGO (shutdown)

Or say you "love it" and "not call it a problem" but at the same time tell it you need it and to not RULE the roost.. because there's other parts of you that can help you.. namely the "spiritual self" the "emotional self" and "the inner self"

Rockchick I'm not trying to call you bad or anything.. okay?

But there are process's and things going on.. in the inside that are the holdup to your happiness??

Do you understand this explanation??

(I think you do..)

And then do you understand we don't want to call these problems but as I said before "unique challenges"

But this is the thing.. you have to look at these "unique challenges"

Imagine it this way.. you're a scientist.. and your goal is to understand yourself..?

Would you agree with me there's a lot you don't understand about you?

(there's still a some stuff about myself I don't understand.. so that would make us in the same boat)

So try and be a observer of your behavior and its reactions.. including here.. even when your talking to me.. watch what sentences and responses you want go give me.. use your EGO when it's fun or comfortable to re-review conversations you've had with me.. but don't look at what I said (unless you want too) look at what you said to me in response

(this is in part how you figure yourself out.. and what your doing! )

Originally Posted by Rockchick26

Well I START, (sometimes), but I rarely follow through or complete any of my actions.

We've got to get you completing these actions

And I know you want this.. we just have to find what is a match/what will work..

Originally Posted by Rockchick26

I don't remember saying it works for a while...I just try this stuff and wait for it to work but it doesn't. Maybe I meant that while i'm reading about it, it resonates with me and I understand it and like it, but it doesn't change my physical life.

Stop waiting!!!

No that it'll work and it will! Okay???

AND EVEN if it doesn't work.. don't invalidate.. don't say.. another method.. the keep trying is important to understand.. and I know your there.. but I need you to meet me half way.. please to the best of your ability do everything I ask..

And report back on what you tried.. cause in so far all I know is every suggestion I give you.. sounds like you take 0 action to do and there's your problem right there..

If you just want me to feed you good advice and helpful suggestions.. fine I can do that!

But you need to tell me so I don't type things for you to actually do.. and know that you will just ignore it!

Every time I ask you to do a step.. tell me if you tried it (in your response) or that you decided not too..

Otherwise, I don't see us getting anywhere.. I need a answer to everything you try.. or don't..

You've already ignored my suggestions seems like 2 times now.. I need to know that your doing the work??

"Workout buddy!"