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Originally Posted by Rockchick26

It's easy for someone else to say I'm doing fine if they aren't living my life , I mean you aren't going to be the one who has to deal with my problems. I honestly don't know how to "push on and forget about being stuck" when my life has gone practically in reverse for the last 14 months.

But see.. it's as I told you before in the defining and labeling this as "problems" is where the trouble starts.. how about we try a new word today..?? "unique challenges"

Originally Posted by Rockchick26

Listening to someone talk or taking in information doesn't solve problems, it's doing things about it.

Actually, your wrong about this! (and I rarely say wrong ) Action doesn't solve problems..

You see this is your EGO again.. telling you how to fix yourself.. it's not your EGO you want to listen too.. it's your heart? It's your spiritual self?? okay?

Start "thinking" your way to a solution.. stop shooting down everything that comes along as "no good".. part of your problem is you do "invalidate everything" I mean everything.. whether it's a belief or it's just your EGO.. Start "thinking" your way to a solution.. stop shooting down everything that comes along as "no good".. part of your problem is you do "invalidate everything" I mean everything.. whether it's a belief or it's just your EGO.. (when you use a method.. doesn't matter the method.. VALIDATE it.. say this worked for me a little.. it may not work anymore.. but VALIDATE you tried it.. helped or your feel about the same.. even validate.. but don't criticize a method when you do that.. it's like TAKING a step backwards.. if you were on the road to recovery and to recover.. all you had to do was step forward.. would you choose to step backwards saying.. "no I'm not getting better" try and validate everything if you can.. please try )

It's like your EGO wants you to stay miserable?

Take your EGO which is likely running as you READ this and say "I love you" 50 times.. say "were a team, I need you to work with me to improve" just say it 50 times.. listen to the words as you say them "out loud" or inside and try and feel some love and excitement in there..

If you were to listen to Abraham or Bashar or Jim Self or me (doesn't matter) each day, every day.. there good advice would rub off on you.. you may not think those recordings have "vibrational" enhancement.. but they do.. your just so busy the "woe is me" to keep up.. on keeping up.. (meaning you keep "trying")

Originally Posted by Rockchick26

it's doing things about it. I am like this with everything in my life, I can read, listen, plan, organize, analyze

Those are all EGO things.. you are making this into a PROCESS.. and that's why it's not fun..

Really, imagine practicing self improvement..?? when it's not fun

Do you know what makes it not fun..?? It's the EGO

You can practice self improvement by the lake, at a bookstore, at the bus stop.. on the toilet.. it don't matter.. you just take a moment and in that moment.. you say I'm going to think about me.. and what's best for me right in this moment..

You are also just not happy cause your still haven't let go of your dad's happiness over yours.. have you?

Alright.. I'm going to give you another exercise to try and see if it helps..

Have you heard abraham talk about Segment Intending.. abraham says.. recognize a segment.. whether you're on the phone, getting yelled at by our dad, watching the TV, eating, whatever it is.. recognize it's a moment in time.. and right in that moment..

Take a pause.. and Declare what you want!

Just say.. in this moment I intend to be happy, to get this guy off the phone, to be alone.. whatever it is you want

(that's one exercise you can try right now.. in real life all through your day.. all you have to do is remind yourself.. and ask/intend..)

Okay exercise #2

I would like you to practice this very simply.. in that do this about 3 times at least in 1 day to see if helps but what you want to do is.. when you think of someone who has your energy.. start with easy people.. don't go after the "worst" person right away.. and just give this is a try

Practical Tools for Making Separations - Part 1 > Jim Self

http://www.masteringalchemy.com/pdfs...ngseps_pt2.pdf

Originally Posted by Rockchick26

I am lazy. I need to learn how to fix THAT.

Well, that's part of the problem isn't it.. your defining lazy as BAD and part of the problem..

I'm incredibly lazy.. you can ask my sister if you want she'll back me up.. I never put up the tent.. or erect the camping stove or move anything physically if I can help it..

You see I embrace who I am.. I know what I want to do.. and what I don't..

Laziness is not a problem, till you make it one.. I'm not telling you that yes, you shouldn't be taking time for you.. and practicing trying to improve yourself.. but you can't get anywhere if your calling yourself "bad" or not worthy.. you need to find the process's that excite you and that don't feel bad..

Let's go over check list again okay??

Tell me everything you tried.. and what excited you about it.. what made you feel good???

- Abraham
- Bashar
- Jim Self?
- NLP
- Wicca?

What else is there??

What resonated with you.. when you read it.. listened to it???

Originally Posted by Rockchick26

I feel like a really souped up car that has all the best parts but it just has no gas in it.

That's a good analogy.. now I'm going to tell you truth and be blunt about it.. why I think you have "no gas"..

In part.. part of that is the thing with your DAD

Because you are holding yourself back.. (unless you changed that?) and thinking of his happiness first.. is 1 reason why it's hard for you to be motivated or happy about anything..

Originally Posted by Rockchick26

And it always comes down to not having enough money, why I am unable to DO things.

Money's just a excuse.. sorry but it is..

If you think these economy and job problems on the planet are over.. think again.. this is just the beginning.. it's not going to get "great depression" worse.. but it is going to take a turn for the FEARFUL.. for anyone who puts there power in the outside reality.. rather than trusting in themselves..

I want to remind of you of something rockchick.. you can read this good advice.. and then go thread hopping.. or go make some popcorn.. or after reading this.. you can go take 5-30 minutes and do some self improvement exercises.. if your are serious about change.. I wouldn't wait.. I wouldn't stall.. I'd just go do it right now.. and then come back to make popcorn or "thread surf"