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Old 04-17-2010, 08:52 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Hello! Thank you for thinking of me, that was nice!!
I know I'm crazy like that

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I've been trying to avoid this forum because I almost got banned last time I posted and people here think all my posts are pity parties so I just figured I better stay away. I've been trying to sort out my life in other ways now but honestly nothing helped as much as this place did. But I am afraid to post again with my problems, I'm pretty sure most people haven't missed me. (Glad you did, though!)
It's not say I missed you.. It's to say I was concerned about you.. and wanted to see how you're doing?

You see I do care.. that you have a happy life!

(don't make me teary.. it's not nice! )

Didn't we talk about the fear of banning??

You can come back.. hell, I'm a technical expert.. if giving up your username doesn't make you a FEAR monger than.. understand you will not lose this as a support system.. nor me if you want me..

But understand that I don't want a clingy kind of help relationship.. I want to empower you.. to be more you..

So why I gave you a stern lecture is I wanted you to focus more on you and less on creating a "poor me" thread.. doesn't mean you don't deserve one.. it just means I was trying to help you "focus"

You know I don't normally meet forums members in person.. but maybe in your case.. it would be a exception

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Originally Posted by Rockchick26
The last time I was on here I was having a really hard time because it seemed like every part of my life was going downhill. Nothing has changed since then, although I wouldn't call myself depressed anymore
that's change!!!

You have changed! Validate it!... Please??? Please? pretty please with icing cake on top???

Did you try asking for help every day?

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now it's more like I don't care and whatever happens happens.
Again this is change.. please validate it

You have released and let go.. by your own description..

You stopped focusing on the problems and the problems became void.. I know you want a happier life.. why do you think I offer my help in this?

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I still haven't been able to find a job
That's not a big deal.. my sister quit her stillwater job in december.. and she still hasn't found one either..

It's funny my friend levi when I left in december also quit his job.. and I talked to him recently and he's been re-hired by the company he quit.. lol
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