Missbhaven - First of all, cute handle.
Anywhere our thoughts, feelings, words and actions don't match each other would be conflict. Any type of unresolved trauma (i.e. abuse, neglect, PTSD from an accident, war, natural disaster, etc), limiting belief (i.e. money isn't spiritual), negative self image (ie. "I can't have what I want cause I'm not smart enough"), resistance to feeling an emotion (ie. "Anger is bad so I won't show it"), a need to be right about something (ie. "No one is as humble as me") - all of that is internal conflict. One easy way to detect if we are in conflict is if we are still being externally-validating. This is a larger discussion that I would love to delve into with you when I have more time. Feel free to ask more questions and I hope that helps for now!
Rei - Although some of our concepts are different, and the form of our work is different, it sounds like we are both trying to reflect people's wholeness back to themselves. Rock on.
Melchoir - Always a pleasure to dive with you, soul man.
Weena - It only takes 1 lifetime to get the total human experience. We love to keep coming back for various reasons, including getting off on the drama of everything. Some people purposefully leave things unfinished just to keep coming back.
Our number of incarnations in the grand scheme of things is not that meaningful. And there's more.