Originally Posted by dulaney0330
I would enjoy having a ton of attention from other men but it's really not healthy for many reasons.
I think inflicting pain on another for excitement is dysfunctional and abusive.
Of course you are entitled to your opinion, but besides it not being your cup of tea, do you have any other reasons to believe so?
Edit: just saw your post about self harm and cutting...
Enjoying pain (both giving and taking) is healthy as long as it is done for the right reasons (as with everything in life).
Eating because you are emotional and want to hide the pain is unhealthy. Eating because you genuinely enjoy your piece of cake, is healthy.
If you want pain for the relieve of stress, relieve of emotional pain, because you hate yourself.. not so healthy, but falls under mental condition, not BDSM (although some people might try and hide their mental condition labeling it BDSM).
If you want pain because you like the endorphins, you like the feeling it gives you, you enjoy it without ulterior motive... Nothing wrong with that