Originally Posted by dulaney0330
I would enjoy having a ton of attention from other men but it's really not healthy for many reasons.
I think inflicting pain on another for excitement is dysfunctional and abusive.
I think inflicting pain on someone who doesn't want it is dysfunctional and abusive. But if mild pain is a part of pleasure for someone, then I don't view it like that. Is it abusive if all parties involved enjoy it?