Ok I refuse to fight to with anyone from now on.
I have come to the conclusion that I need to accept full responsibility for my actions and consequences. One of the consequences of sharing information about myself and my eating disorder is that people will provide a myriad of different suggestions, critisisms and advice.
It is then upto me to sort through and only take on board the information which is relevant to my situation and accept the rest with gratitude and strength. The strength of knowing that I know myself and ultimately I have to decide whats right regardless of external pressures.