Michelle, it sounds like a question of self-acceptance. 'illusion's' advice is great, put that into practise. I believe that true change must occur at the sunconscious level. It's not enough to consciously think something but it must be deeply internalised. Affirmations like 'I like myself' seem very simple but if repeated with real meaning in the voice, it will eventually be accepted by the subconscious mind. You deserve this!
I also noticed great results for myself by listening to hypnotic mp3's designed to influence the subconscious. This is where a hypnotist puts you in a relaxed state and speaks positive suggestions directly to the subconscious mind. I would recommend this too. Best of luck.
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