You should give us some specific examples so we can help understand where you are coming from a little bit better here. I'm guessing that you mean social insecurity and confidence. Remember this though:
Introverted people: are inside their head when they are with other people. They are thinking thoughts like: "I wonder what they think of me?" "Should I say that, it might be stupid?" I know because I used to get like that around girls.
Extroverted people: are outisde their head when they are with other people. As soon as an idea pops in their head they say it immediately, without thinking whether it will be stupid or not. This is how one is around their close friends.
Basically, train your mind to be extroverted all the time and you will remove a lot of the problems you have socially. I'm getting pretty good at this, and it has helped a lot.
Erock
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