I lost my mum 6 years ago (I was 25) and it was a great shock. My advice to you is to let yourself grieve. I agree that you need to look to your future and think about what your dad would have wanted but you have still lost a big person and a big chunk of your life so don't put so much pressure on yourself to make sure everything is OK for all around you. Take it one day at a time for now.
When my mum died I lost all faith and feeling for my dad. We had never got on really well but it all just went downhill. Now I can say that we do get on well.
Just take your time getting over this. Spend time with your family and time with those who build you up.
My thoughts are with you
Take care
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