Elucidate - I just read some of the "What happened 2000 yrs ago" thread. For some reason I can't send you a private message although I've exchanged messages before, so I'll just briefly say it here.
I totally understand your questioning the accuracy and efficacy of the Bible, as well as the historical evidence of Jesus, Mary, etc - but why argue it with someone who has such a fixed opinion based on faith? At some point it should just feel humorous, like trying to convince someone that what they call green is actually what you call blue.
Let people have their experience, including yourself, with no need to convince anyone or feel defensive about your position.
I can understand anger and frustration around being forced to accept something or around not being acknowledged for what you are saying/asking. Most of us get enough of that with our parents. And yet you don't need to win against anyone. Just marinate in yourself and keep asking your questions until you get an internal answer the resonates with you. Then you are closer to living the essence of the enlightened masters that you mentioned, like Socrates, Plato, Mary and Jeshua. Hope that helps.