Originally Posted by MidasGirl
Danas, your post is so heartfelt, had me in tears.
This is what stood out to me.
Exactly. Why the hell not?
But you can't not attract someone that is a vibrational match with you. By the Law of Attraction it can't not happen. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but the people you are attracting ARE of a vibrational match with you. There's still some gunk belief that you have in you that is keeping your vibration low in this area. I know this because there's an area of my life (finances) that I'm having a struggle with right now. But I know it is just that I've allowed myself to get into low vibration in that area, and it's up to me to work on raising it.
You can't not attract something that is a vibrational match. And it's evident from your statement above. I can't imagine myself having that belief!
Thank you MidasGirl!
Ill give you an example.
Few weeks ago I was with a guy I really liked. There he was in my living room. But every other sentence of his was "Im so broke and life is so hard"
I wanted to be with him. But he said, he cant be with me now because even though he loves me, he just cant, I scare him, Im too happy and and following my dreams while he feels like a faliure.
Another example. Last week. Another guy I like a lot, comes over, and all I wanna do is cuddle. but he doesnt stop complaining about what a wreck his life is, and then leaves. I try to touch him, but he says he cant, he isnt open to that now....
I was in a relationship in the past with both these guys.
Both came very briefly back into my life again and left. And it suddenly hit me that they didnt reject me this time (even though technically they did), but rather they couldnt be with me because Im happy and optimistic and they were just too down for me. Seeing me in my beautiful apt when they are struggling financially drove both these guys mad.
Its odd because they both came in less then a month, and their reaction to me was similar.
So thats why I said that even if I want to be with someone, if we dont match, we cant be together....