Danas, your post is so heartfelt, had me in tears.
This is what stood out to me.
For instance its hard for me to imagine that someone really nice, loyal, smart, attractive etc… would be into me! Which is silly because, why the hell not?
Exactly. Why the hell not?
Any suggestions on how to attract someone who a vibrational match?
But you can't not
attract someone that is a vibrational match with you. By the Law of Attraction it can't not happen. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but the people you are attracting ARE of a vibrational match with you. There's still some gunk belief that you have in you that is keeping your vibration low in this area. I know this because there's an area of my life (finances) that I'm having a struggle with right now. But I know it is just that I've allowed myself to get into low vibration in that area, and it's up to me to work on raising it.
You can't not attract something that is a vibrational match. And it's evident from your statement above. I can't imagine myself having that belief!