1) Get her checked out by a doctor for clinical depression. I'm not a doctor, but crying constantly and thinking about suicide are pretty serious symptoms, you should take her to a medical expert.
2) I agree with everyone else here about just listening. I read a book about the differences between men and women, and it said that when women "unload" on you they usually just want you to listen, they don't want you to give advice. Unfortunately most men when they're being unloaded on feel that they're being asked to give advice ;-) Talking about personal development stuff to her hasn't helped her get better, so try something new. Just sit quietly and listen to her. |