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Originally Posted by SlashChick
Hi Paul,
So you want to polarize? Set goals that are bigger than yourself, and work to achieve them, and by necessity, you will polarize. Yep, it's that simple. The act of setting goals in and of itself will not cause you to polarize, but if you want to achieve those goals, you must polarize. No polarization is "good" or "bad" as long as you don't exploit yourself (lightworker syndrome) or exploit others (darkworker syndrome.)
Hope this helps.
-Erica
That's a great way to look at it Erica. I completely agree.
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Originally Posted by Dan.Linehan  That's a great way to look at it Erica. I completely agree. |
Also, if mixing polarities are two incompatiable motivations - like it was said to be motivated by fear (or self love, or harnessed fear) and by love of others isn't even possible to do - then we don't even have to worry that we are polarized since the two states are supposedly not able to exist at the same time.
Fear and love are different and mutually exclusive of each other when looking at thoses states as the motivation behind goals.
None of us have to sort through all our motivations and try to figure out which it is - or try to make sure it's only one of the polarities. It is going to be one or the other anyway!