Just sit down and LISTEN. I was a very depressed teenage girl, I attempted suicide multiple times and ended up having a mental breakdown as an adult. All I ever wanted was someone to sit down and listen to me. I did not want advice, I wanted someone to shut it and focus on what I had to say. Do not push her, do not offer advice unless specifically asked and do let her know you are ALWAYS there for her when she needs to talk. And let go. You are driving her away by insisting she continue her exercises.
Also, a note here - when I first began visualizing, I was doing great, then hit a road block about four months in and had SEVERE depression, crying and feeling like nothing had changed. But soon I was up and running again and felt like I had gone from a Yugo to a Maserati in a day. It is possible she may have unearthed a really nasty limiting belief that has come to the surface. If this is true, she has to deal with it in her own way. |