I rationalised afterwards that the key was being very open, trusting and comfortable together. Plus we were already exploring other frontiers together. But that theory was kind of floored when it happened with someone new who I hadn't established that with and is spiritually knowing but not very curious.
I have had other relationships since where there has been no connection like that. So I'm not really sure what the crucial ingredients are.
The Tantric Master I spoke said it takes a great deal of discipline, meditation, fasting and with holding to achieve which in all honesty to an undisciplined soul such as myself sounds awfully heady and loaded with mostly unfillfilled expectation from what I've gleaned. I'm sure someone will no doubt set me straight on that though.
The energy of the orgasm definately moves up the body through the chakra system and we exited with it through the crown charka because I was able to see it.
Lallymac
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