Sorry for sounding like I was stereotyping, it wasn't my intention and was why I put "usually" in there
But to me it seems like an accurate statement, which I still stand by
I know back in my darkworker days, that was when I was most interested in PUA tactics and seduction. I justified it with the standard PUA lines of "she wants it anyway" and "it's for everyone's good", but the more I started polarizing towards lightworker the less important it seemed and the less I could believe what I said
Sure, it's enjoyable, and maybe it IS creating some value in the world, but it just wasn't meaningful anymore.