Hi Michelle,
Without wishing to trivialise your problems, EFT practitioners see the physical symptoms of emotional trauma all the time. It's treated quite simply with EFT. You can go to the main EFT page (
EFT Provides Impressive Physical and Emotional Freedom--New Discovery Often Works Where Nothing Else Will) and download the free manual or my web page (
EFT - Really Good Ideas) has a quick guide, all free.
Good luck Michelle, I know you'll get there!
Hazel