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Erock · 03-27-2007, 07:07 AM

Let me break this down for you guys once and for all:

Women DO NOT only like "bad" guys or the dudes that polarize with the "darkside."

Chicks like guys that have a lot of power over themselves and the world around them. The more polarized a man this, the more a women will be attracted to him. Women go crazy for guys that polarize strongly one way or the other. It DOES NOT matter which way.

The reason why society has the impression that girls like bad guys is because most men in our society who do polarize strongly (unconciously), polarize with the dark side, and are therefore more attractive to women then the conflicted, unpolarized "nice guys" who try to be nice, but at the same time try to maintain power.

There are very few men out there who have polarized with love, because society tries to instill masculine, macho values into boys and those that would have otherwise grown up to have polarized with love end up being nice guy wimps who are confused and powerless.

Believe me, men that truly polarize with love are a rare breed, and have no trouble attracting and maintaining solid relationships with women.

Erock

03-27-2007, 07:07 AM	#12 (permalink)
Erock Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Olympia, Washington Posts: 462	Let me break this down for you guys once and for all: Women DO NOT only like "bad" guys or the dudes that polarize with the "darkside." Chicks like guys that have a lot of power over themselves and the world around them. The more polarized a man this, the more a women will be attracted to him. Women go crazy for guys that polarize strongly one way or the other. It DOES NOT matter which way. The reason why society has the impression that girls like bad guys is because most men in our society who do polarize strongly (unconciously), polarize with the dark side, and are therefore more attractive to women then the conflicted, unpolarized "nice guys" who try to be nice, but at the same time try to maintain power. There are very few men out there who have polarized with love, because society tries to instill masculine, macho values into boys and those that would have otherwise grown up to have polarized with love end up being nice guy wimps who are confused and powerless. Believe me, men that truly polarize with love are a rare breed, and have no trouble attracting and maintaining solid relationships with women. Erock Last edited by Erock; 03-27-2007 at 07:10 AM.