Move on. You've never been physically attracted to her. She should have been "just a friend."
If you were physically attracted to her in the beginning and just lost interest, I would be saying something different.
You made a big mistake by getting into a relationship with someone you weren't attracted to.
I can't stress this enough. This is not her fault. It is all on you. Keep in mind, it doesn't make you a bad person, you screwed up and you need to fix this sooner than later. And yes, she does deserve someone who wants all of her completely. I feel bad for her in this situation. Unfortunately she's getting the very short end of the stick. But you are doing her a disservice by continuing on in this relationship.
You screwed up, fix it, be a man.
For everyone saying that personality is the only thing that's important, here's a question.
If you a straight guy and say that personality is the only thing that matters, would you date a guy who had the most super personality? My best friend is awesome and I know I'm NEVER going to date him.
Being physically attracted to someone matters, period.
I understand in a long relationship that people become less physically attracted to their partner, but at that point, if you're not mature enough to grow older with another person and appreciate everything you've had together, then that's another issue.
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