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Originally Posted by wolfgang  If it's only a difference in the main motivations then how does a darkworker actually end up realizing other's importance in achieving what's best for the others? I've always thought nothing happens or gets acted on unless the individual is sufficiently motivated to do some sort of action.
If a darkworker does nothing to try to pay attention to others (I understand people are saying darkworkers don't go out of their way to hurt people - but did you know ignoring is acutally worse than some negative attention?) how does a darkworker actually "end up" realizing and doing anything about others?
[...] To realize other's is expanding to the lightworker's realm!
To be dedicated to one's self as a path of eventually realizing that it doesn't work that way, sounds more like one starts with being motivated to serve self but eventually finds it's more joyful and less painfull to be able to expand your motivation to include others - that's not shifting some polarity type thing - it's growth from being self centered and non-carring. |
The darkworker realizes others' importance in achieving what's best for the darkworker. You get further up on the shoulders of giants and backs of eagles, than you do stepping on ants, even anthills.
Motivation is needed, correct.
A darkworker does pay attention to others. After all, power is something they have over(when at lower levels) and among and with (on higher levels) others. They need capable people to serve them.
It's not about ignoring others, or not realizing there are others, at all. Instead of serving others in the idea of compassionate oneness, they make others grand because of the importance of them in relation to making themselves enjoy better lives.
They are always ultimately motivated to serve themselves. Where do their stuff come from? From others. Darkworkers can only do so much by themselves.
Just as lightworkers, when they get past their syndrome, realize they have to help themselves in order to be able to help others.
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Originally Posted by impaul99 If darkworker = loving self first, and lightworker = loving world first, then where does love/fear come in place?
Why do darkworkers get labeled with being associated with FEAR energy? They simply love themselves FIRST and by learning to love themselves first they learn to love the world. Lightworkers love the world first and by learning to love the world they love themselves.
Why do darkworkers get labeled as acting out of fear? Acting out of self love is not the same as acting out of fear. |
The self-love a darkworker experiences feel different. Think arrogance. Try to feel your own egoistical importance.
Then drop that, be calm.
Then try feeling loving compassion and caring for yourself.
The difference is clear.
Also, it is true that darkworkers don't feel afraid, anxious - they've conquered, moved beyond, their fears. They feel unstoppably powerful and undeniably important. They act to express and experience more of that power.
It's more that the darkworkers starting point is one of fear, survival, and power over others. Then they realize others' importance to themselves, and that feeling of being the most important being in the universe extends to others.
A lightworker starts at the feelings of humility and compassion, and move to greater love, also giving this love to themselves, seeing the perfection and beauty in all - again an idea that everybody are intensely valuable.
So it looks the same, the difference in words is subtle, but notice that it *feels very different*, and that what you want to do right now - "create!" / "aquire!" - is different.