In my opinion, what you resist persists...it's kind of a law or something. Until you get this lesson, it will keep at you. So...let me just say, forget the punching thing okay? That one just won't get you anywhere. Because the next person infringing on you might be a parent or child or whatever, and punching just isn't a good option anyway.
Do you know it's okay for you to just look straight at this guy and say "leave me alone". I would say please the first time but then after that, I would just stick with my point.
The time he tapped you after you asked him to stop touching you, I feel was a test. At that time, you could, or can say..."I said stop touching me". Boundaries will always be tested until you really get that it's your right to have them... But until you really know it, they will be tested.
He's just here so you can learn this lesson. Learn it, and he'll fade away.
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