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Originally Posted by Dan.Linehan  For me, mixed motivations are distracting. I tend to wonder why I'm really doing something. Even if there are muliple valid reasons I'll hold myself back until I feel like I know my "main" reason.
Picking one polarity up front seems more effective as it alleviates all the self doubt. |
If polarizing is actually a way to not have self doubt and finding the main reason, then why apply a concept and classify the why? I don't see and haven't been able to apply polarzing to find that it remove self doubt - it just makes my head want to conceptualize and get lost in ideas of where in/out - fear/love boundaries are.
The idea of being motivated to serve myself or others as a choice is what endlessly generates the doubt for me. Like, oh no, Feeling the motivation and desire with less lableing and expanded conscoiusness is what remove my doubts.