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Originally Posted by Steve Pavlina  For example, in your social interactions, others will get an intuitive hit that your motives aren't pure, and they'll be less likely to trust you. They'll get the feeling that something isn't right about you, and they'll hold back on bringing you opportunities if they have the chance to deal with someone with a more obvious polarity. Even darkworkers are easier to trust because their motives and actions tend to be clear and consistent. |
When I look back at my past actions, whenever polarities were mixed, the process and the outcome left me feeling uncomfortable and other people feeling that I was not completely trustworthy.
when polarized, it is much is easier to make choices, first, and then justify those choices. and there is a feeling of peace/happiness in those decisions and actions.
I have a very good frnd who is a darkworker (which I did not until now). I did not understand why he behaved in a certain manner sometimes. But thats how one feels when looking at a more polarized person amidst a sea of mixed polarity folks.
Reading posts on polarization has made me realize that in fact, he was much more polarized than many other people. Which is why his actions left someone like me, who was mixing polarities, confused. Must add that he is very predictable, for example, he does NOT have ego issues with anyone. And does not have "expectations" from others and expects vice-versa. His "motives and actions tend to be clear and consistent."