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Originally Posted by Wulfen  What people usually don't grasp is that:
A relationship is not a state, is an ongoing process.
Techie people will understand quickly when compared with "security is not a product, is a process". A relationship is not some item you have, but a continuous process that needs to be invested in.
Or in other words, you must seduce each other (create attraction) in order for it to work.
Also, the man must lead. A man who does not lead is unattractive. In all relationships where the woman leads, she is unhappy, because she'd rather be led. Sexist as it may sound, it's how it works. |
Hey Wulfen, your're hitting the nail on the head! Relationship is a process. I'd like to add that chemistry is also a process.
It is not determined on the spot or first sight whether you have chemistry or not. That is pure attraction.
Attraction and chemistry can both increase along the way if both parties know how to so call seduce their partners. Yes, women like to be led you're right again. So it's about knowing how to lead and how to be led.
Let's tango!
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Originally Posted by Wulfen By the way, Dating Specialist, I read the series on Upping your Attraction Quotient, and, what can I say? You have an awesome undesrstanding on what works and what not, and did a great sythesis job on determing the 5 attributes that are attractive for both men and women. It should be an obligatory read for anyone interested in becoming more attractive to the opposite sex.
Specifically, one of your posts was very refreshing, because I'm tired of dating gurus that say looks don't matter. Looks matter a lot! But it's true that the overall style is more important that the actual "hotness" factor. In any case, anyone,*anyone* can improve their looks score at least by 2 whole points in a 10 scale by means of hitting the gym and renewing their wardrobes. |
Wow, I'm so happy to hear this. Thank you so much Wulfen.
Do leave some comments on my blog as well. I'm sure my readers would love to hear from a PUA, the man himself! haha