Ouch, please when you talk with her, be honest but compassionate. Telling someone you said you love them, yet were thinking 'well, maybe not' could potentially kill someone emotionally. I don't know if she needs to know all the gory nitty-gritty details.
Perhaps just tell her the time apart gave you an opportunity to consider your relationship, and regrettably you don't know if you still feel the same way you once did. Suggest some time apart. It's not lying, and will still suffice in cluing her in on your true feelings.
You can't help how you feel, and both of you deserve to be in a happy and fulfilling relationship.
Breakups are never easy. Just be (gently) honest and try not to give her false hope. I wouldn't wait in talking with her either. Although it will be painful, she deserves to know asap.
Best of luck! |