Those are good books, absvan, but might be a little tough to understand. Very confusing stuff unless you have had some personal experience with Subjective Reality and/or exploring your own consciousness. Even so, it is worth working through
The "you" that you think you are, isn't really you. "You" isn't referring to a singular body-mind-soul named Lisa777. It is referring to the all-pervading, omniscient, omnipresent, omnipowerful feeling-thought of "I", the sureness and awareness of your own existence, that can be separated from your specific body-mind. For example, in your past lives (if you try past-life regression) you have had different bodies, different memories, different minds, altogether a different person -- but you had the same awareness of "I".
What Steve is saying, is that "I" created the whole universe, including what you currently believe to be your body-mind-soul. Your body-mind is actually a property of nature and the universe, and is different from the larger "I" that actually gives you awareness.
However, within this Subjective Reality paradigm, is the corollary of the Law of Attraction, which states that what you focus your mind upon tends to manifest. As individual body-mind projections of consciousness, we have the same powers of creation as Universal Consciousness does, albeit to a lesser degree. And paradoxically, the thought of wanting control tends to drive it away from you, because the thought of "i want control over my life" means that you currently don't have control over it, so it will manifest the latter instead. The fastest way to gain control over anything is to release the desire to control -- you'll often find that it doesn't bother you anymore, whether you have control of it or not. And usually, control will then come to you unasked.