[Paco]

While at a certain level I agree with Steve when he says that neither polarization is better that the other, ultimately LOVE beats FEAR and I'll try to explain here why.

Where does LOVE polarization lead you to? It leads you to the light, to unity, to the highest good of all (thgoa) for everyone. Light, love, thgoa, what these words are spelling is the Divinity, the Cosmic Consciousness, God, the whole Universe! We can call it That.
Where does FEAR lead you? I haven't thought much about it because it is not important. What's important is that it leads you somewhere else, not to become one with That. I think FEAR leads you to your ego, though.

And so?
Well, why are you reading this forum, anyway? We want personal development. We have tried new cars, a higher income, power, plastic surgery... but it doesn't cut it, we want more and more. So what could possibly quench that thirst? What are we looking for here? Here, there and everywhere, by the way.
We want to feel better. We want joy.

We started with security, a higher income and expensive watches. From there, some went further out themselves (the FEAR polarization), and tried to have more. More money, more power, etc. Others realized something: not even all the money in the world can save you. Not even all the power in the world can quench that thirst. How did they noticed? No matter how much money/public recognition/etc they had, at night, before going to sleep, they still felt thirsty.

Why? Well, it looks like that thirst is infinite! So what could possible quench an infinite thirst? Only something infinite, too.
It seems to me that that thirst is actually something we have imprinted in our beings calling us home. Something imprinted way deep in our selves, so we don't forget where we came from. To remind us that our ultimate goal is to come back home. Or should I say, to merge back home.
Love, and only love, can help you get there.

But you might prefer FEAR, and that's fine. I guess you won't move forward until you become the richest woman or man in the world and learn your lesson.