Ok, so I just read this post...
My initial reaction is that the I liked the overall message and that it's something I need to hear...especially the "make up your damned mind already!" part of it.
However, I DID find myself wondering as I read this about one measly little detail...
It's interesting to me that the message is to be specific on what you want, but you are NOT specific on who you want it from.
Shouldn't there be a bit a reciprocity in this regard? I always get a charge when people use the term "universe" as something you can ask for things. To me, to use your own analogy, that would be like going into the restaraunt and referring to your waitress/waitor as "restaraunt."
Wouldn't it be ridiculous for you to refer to your waiter/waitress as "restaraunt"? To me that sounds ridiculous.