Hi Eternomi
I would believe every word you said if I were a slave to circumstance "What is". But I no longer percieve that perspective any more. "What is" Is now history. So if you want to be kicked around in your life by current circumstance. Then your explanation is adequate.
The way that our emotion really kicks in is when we start to see that we can create our own new set of circumstances that will over time become much more pleasing than being shoved around by accepting "What is".
Simon