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Old 03-19-2007, 10:20 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by escapee View Post
I think the girl was simply a victim of a much powerful evil intention from external force (or LOA from a bad person ) . She is a victim and she did very little to attract the incident to herself. It's the other way round . The rapist forced his powerful wicked intention/LOA on the innocent and unawared girl that he met by chance and it could be everyone else girl.

I'm trying to inject a little bit of logical sense here ..
Unfortunately escapee, there is no place for logic in belief.

If you feel that the girl was a victim of a more powerful external force, then you must also believe that you could become a victim to a more powerful external force, and that someone else could force their will on you.

I personally find that disempowering, so I choose to believe something else. I may not be right, but it helps me sleep at night.

Radiant Rebecca

PS - By the way, here's an interesting somewhat related fact I learned recently. A group of researchers spent years interviewing serial rapists. When asked what the group of women who got away from their potential rapists did differently, the answer was the same straight across the board. "Anything."

Of all the women these men had targeted, only 5% even bothered to try to fight back.

That means that 95% of these woman believed they were a victim before they were actually victims. There's some food for thought for you.
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