Originally Posted by Plato
I actually don't have fantasies of domination. I just like having my needs met in a timely fashion. The "lizard" part of my brain gets upset when it sees an attractive woman and there's no extensive action towards sex. And it doesn't like begging or trying to win approval.
Plato see, Plato want, hoo ha grunt.
I still think a D/s relationship might be good for you. Because in that relationship, you see your GF, you want your GF, you get your GF. No questions asked.
And of course, I think every guy should be entitled to foreplay-free quickies every once in awhile...