Do you want to know something...I wrote the original post when I was drunk - ha ha! And you know what I made the most sense - he he!
Of course what I said was all true, but I don't think I would of been able to articulate it as well is if I was sober
Thanks everyone for your feedback,your feedback was very helpful and as it turned out, it all worked out fine. I think there was no right or wrong answer this time, but I think I am more in tune with what I want these days, so I didn't have to fall from grace so much this time. In the past when I have had these battles, I have fallen flat on my face when I decided to go against my gut feeling....but this time my gut feeling was not really clear at all, even when I analysed it from every angle.