With-holding sex punishes me just as much as him...
Funny how the TV never talks about the woman who is punishing herself by preventing everyone from a good lay.
hehehe.
Actually - this marriage question is one I have. And I'm in a great partnership right now that has been going on about 4 years. Sometimes I really want to marry him. Other times, I ask myself - but why? No matter what, we're going to have THIS partnership if things go how we'd prefer them to. We have a house, we contribute evenly in most ways.
Don't I already have it all without the paper?
It's hard. I can't even answer this for myself fully, yet
