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Originally Posted by JE Gonzalez 
Marriage seems like such a trap, that you hear men joking of losing their freedom. Why would a marriage eschew personal freedom? That is not what I want with a wife, all I want is a best friend and a sex partner with kids, not a chain and ball!
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This part is simple...don't be with someone who's controlling. I must confess I am horrified by the depiction of "wives" in mainstream movies & television shows. Making the man sleep on the couch whenever there's a fight, withholding sex as punishment, not allowing porn in the house, making your husband ask your
permission before he goes out...if that's what real marriage is like, I would advise all men to RUN THE HELL AWAY.
Of course, I'm personally of the opinion that if you want your man to have sex with you and only you, you'd better damn well put out. Men have needs. Which is maybe why I can't understand this portrayal of women as beings who like to suck joy out of their men's lives...