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Originally Posted by Michelle  Why do you even waste your time in the company of such people? |
Why do we do a lot of things we shouldn't do?
I'm learning, I'm not perfect and I don't know the answers to everything. Sometimes, you can't see clearly at the time and so you ask people for their opinon, to get a better perspective. Not everyone reacts in the same way and I wish it was easy for me to switch off, but it's not. I'm obviously a sensative person and that's just me. Also when your worked up about something your not as rational.
Thanks everyone for your advice. I let it be! I'm over it, I was heated up at the time because I'm not a fan of gossips and nasty people.
I wont go to any of the meet-ups anymore, which is ashame because I sometimes meet nice people. However, I always leave the greets feeling somewhat unhappy, so it's not worth it to me.
I am also inclined to remind you that the other members of your forum are adults who are probably capable of forming opinions and making decisions for themselves. What would your "informing" them of anything accomplish? Perhaps they wish to gossip along with the others, perhaps not. Why should that concern you?
I wish it was that easy for me to switch off. I don't know why it concerns me but it does.