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Old 03-15-2007, 10:56 PM   #1 (permalink)
nvictor
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Default A possible solution to overcoming fear?

I've been using my subconscious to overcome fear.

Many people would think for 10 seconds before doing something. But 10 seconds can quickly become 10 minutes. Sometimes, it's just a matter of 1/10 of a second. Plus our subconscious mind is faster than our conscious mind. Our conscious mind is the creator of fear. Our subconscious doesn't know fear. At the first thought, which I believe coming from subconscious, I act.

These are some situations.

I couldn't talk in class because english is not my native language. Now I just raise my hand. All faces turn in my direction , the teacher goes "YES?" with a smile, this makes me feel confident and fear. This is actually a powerful mix.

I also use my subconscious in the bus. I've noticed that most students mind their own business because they fear, so I've decided to mind their business and make them "mind my business". The bus is a good example. Most students would never sit next to another student they don't know, if there are more sits of course. So I always sit next to someone, say "What's up?", or "Do you have an exam?" if s/he is actually studying...

I still feel fear when doing all this but I do it anyway. However, my philosophy classes have taught me that our subconscious is our uncivilized part and our conscious is quite civilized [I think it was something related to Freud and his theories about sex; chapters you don't want to forget for a long time ].

This is the only difficulty I've encountered is situations like when beautiful girls walk around and I.... or when my roommate is making too much noise talking in his cell phone and I want to stick the phone is his mouth in order to get peace.

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