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Originally Posted by moviestar  What would a man have to do, where and how, and what kind of man would he have to be (looks, character) for you to agree to have casual sex with him? Meaning you would know that it will be casual and nothing more.
Please be honest. I know you have rules, but they all can be bent if you meet the perfect guy or the circumstances are just right (like nobody will know about you having sex with him). That's what I'm interested in. |
I don't think I have EVER been someone who would have casual sex with anybody. Right now I am the most married peson alive, so the only person I have casual sex with I am married to. For whatever reason, sex has always been important to me. I feel (don't laugh. I am not trying to be corny or old fashioned, I just am) that sex represents the spiritual union of man and woman to make a whole. Sort of a marrying of yin and yang thing. It has just never felt casual to me.
BTW...I wanted to add that I never judge anybody else for having casual sex. I have friends who have happy and healthy single sex lives where they meet guys, have fun and casual sex with them for a few weeks and happily move on. They have a very 'no harm, no foul' feeling about the whole thing and even I think it is normal and healthy. Just not for me.