Thankyou for the reply Annie! I really appreciate it.
And it really does resonate with me. Because I have always felt that way on one level or another, in regard of living with the choice of action or reaction. Having faced my fair share of trials,I reacted most of my life while counselling others to act upon their tragedies, to use them as stepping stones to bettering themselves.
I understand what you mean and I think it's... internalizing and choosing to make the most of it in a positive way? To letting ourselves grow from the experience and to choose positive action from that point on. I think I'm on the path that I need to be, stumbling sometimes but for the most part I manage to get back to where I need to be. Thankyou again!