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Old 03-13-2007, 11:40 PM
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If someone attacked me or my family, and it seemed wise to use my martial arts training in that situation, I'd give that person a well-deserved ass kicking to the best of my ability.

Letting myself or my family get beat up isn't being love polarized -- that's just being stupid.

Being love polarized isn't about meditating all day long or handing out flowers and hugs at the airport. You don't have to behave like a Smurf.

Love polarization is a fiery motivation that burns inside you where you feel absolutely incredible and want to express that creatively in a way that contributes to others. If someone wants to crush your contribution by attacking you, I say thrash them for the greater good.

The fascinating thing about polarization is that both polarities will often end up taking similar actions, although for entirely different reasons. A fear polarized person might have the same reaction.
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