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Old 03-13-2007, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted by JAlvy View Post
So, to make sure, it is not possible/or effective to switch polarities based on what you want from different goals?
Initially the best way to learn about polarity is to begin using them selectively for certain situations. So you may use love for one situation and fear for another.

After a few years of doing this, you'll begin to grasp the big picture, and the benefits of picking a single polarity will be more clear.

A single polarity gives you a much greater across-the-board congruence. With polarization you begin to experience synergy, where the different parts of your life start fitting together more cooperatively. The expression of love/fear in one area supports the same polarity in other areas.

When you keep mixing fear and love, even if you do your best to compartmentalize them, you never reach the point of synergy. Some of your love-based actions will undo your fear-based progress, and vice versa.
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