My husband isn't really into improving himself. I love him for who he is and I have no interest in trying to change him. He is happy with who he is now and that's fine by me.
I do discuss my ideas with him and he listens and understands my points of view, but he doesn't share them. He is very supportive of anything I want to try, which is wonderful, but he doesn't want to try it all with me. This is fine by both of us.
I believe that if you love each other then you accept each other for who you are and leave it at that. If my husband decides to join me in the world of personal development then I will be delighted. If not then I will carry on by myself and continue to share my ideas with him.
I think if you want a partner to grow with you, then you have to find a partner who wants to grow. If you are truly happy with your current partner then accept her for who she is, and grow on your own. |