Well, both Hitler and Jesus not had... a happy ending. I guess the best is to be assertive.
Steve... this is the post you have wrote that I less agree with it.
But I'm not close minded, so I guess if I disagree so much... it's maybe because I'm closing my mind to something or so... mmm...
I'm not a great achiever of things, that's for sure. But I'm mostly happy. I guess that is for the assertive way. Maybe polarizing I would achieve more things, one way or another, maybe I would feel worse... but maybe achieving those things I would be happy...
Sometimes I've deal with someone in the very agresive-dark way... It looked like I solved the problem... but it was not. The problem was then inside of me not outside. So I tried for a mutual understanding.
Anyway what's the use of achieving something? As long I can live being true to myself, I'm happy. Achieve for what? for then wanting to achieving some other thing...
Let's say I deal with a girl. I know the polarities work better... "Nice guy and bad guy" but hardly something balanced. Yeah, I'm alone but not in a tricky relationship. At the end... you only got yourself. I think.
Or maybe I'm just a fool...