Originally Posted by Wax Frog
The idea that my circumstances derive from, and can only be changed by acting upon, what I perceive as external reality is quite seductive, given the convincing intensity and stability of the experience. I expect this is one of the biggest hurdles, if not the biggest.
I think you are correct, that this is maybe the biggest hurdle in terms of BL practice. I'm trying to dive into what exactly the discomfort for me is when I contemplate the idea that it's all a hologram. I can't quite isolate it.